Intuition? Indecision? How to know when to let go.
Growing up and definitely in most of '20s, I would find it impossible to make a decision ( I blame my Libran ascendent! ) I would weigh up every possibility and option, going round and round in circles, and would put off making a choice for as long as I could! Being a empath and psychic I could see everyone else's point of view, often putting them first and understanding others feelings before my own.
I remember clearly something that happened, that changed this. I was struggling with a choice, two paths, directions to take. Asking spirit ( pleading would be a better term ) for help, to be shown what to do and I heard my inner voice, higher self say lovingly 'how do you expect anyone else to listen to any guidance you give, when your not listening to your own. You know what to do' and in that moment I found that I totally did. On one level I had already chosen, it's just I wanted guarantees it was ok or right, but I knew intuitivity that it was. That was a wake up call for me, a 'aha' moment.
Of course we all need extra help and guidance at times, with a reading, getting advice from a friend or family member. To clarify our next steps, to check in with ourselves, to see if our intuition is correct and were not playing into a past patterns, giving into our fears or deluding ourselves to something that isn't the actual truth. I find though, when your willing to explore your intuition further or are doing any sort of spiritual, self development, holistic, healing work with yourself or others you have a responsibility to walk your talk and not to preach what we then don't do ourselves, but It is a process, a journey and should not be judged. We all do better, when we know better.
To strengthen your own intuition you have to follow it, it's as simple as that. It takes doing the spur of the moment actions, when you feel the push to do something and it takes listening to the no's, to not rush in.
Often, one of the biggest, often hardest decisions any of us ever face is the one to either keep going, try again or when it's finally come time to let go. This could be with a work situation, circumstance or a personal relationship. Our souls often know when something is finished (but on a higher level and perspective it never is, even death is a transition) Often in my readings I will see the dynamic, 'it's not over till it's over ' as there maybe more we need to learn to be finally able to move on. We must bare in mind though we are powerful creators in our lives. We get to choose what is right for us. The more we know ourselves and are true to who we are by making loving choices, the more the universe knows we're to find us, aligning us by bringing destined events and good stuff into our lives.
The saying goes if a mistake gets repeated, the second time it is choice, and that can be the case, Often we choose to stay in circumstances that are hurting us for fear of judgement, we fear causing upset to others (even sometimes at the detriment of ourselves). Others not liking or agreeing with our decisions, we fear we may regret, feel guilt, or that we're going to end up on our own or lonely - not trusting in our lives to keep moving us forward. We hang out, hold on for things to change, not realising that we mustn't always keep repeating a passive approach, but that we can be the instigators, the change makers to bring more positivity into our lives.
If your finding yourself back at square one, maybe many times, having tried your best, have done the work on youself, and everything you can to improve your situation, but things never seem to change, this is then the best indicator that it's time to address things. Often having time out, time away from the situation or person can help a lot. You get a chance to refocus, to be in your own energy, it gives you a chance to see clearly, acknowledging dynamics or previous understanding you may have missed, which may make the situation transform in a positive way.
When were at these times of choice we actually have a option. We can either wait for the rug to be finally pulled from under us, so outside factors take the decision away, like with another drama painful event, a redundancy, or a no way back type thing or you can listen to your intuition, put full faith and trust in you, in your life and free yourself.
Big love
Jannine X