What to expect from your first time. The before, during, and after of a psychic reading.
After having quite a few clients recently, who are newbies to all things psychic and having readings, I thought I would explain bits and tips about how I work and what you can expect from having a reading.
Deciding you want and then who to choose to give you a reading, can seem daunting at first, especially when it's something you haven't done before. Trusting you vibes is key, always go with who you feel drawn to. Then check out how they work through their website, Google search or maybe you have heard good things via a friend's, family recommendation.
After you have chosen your reader, booked up to speak to them, the next thing to do is to set a intention and think about what you would like to get out of your session. It could be to speak to a loved one who has passed over, or you may want to know what is going on with relationships around you, or what work, career, life purpose stuff is coming up, if there are positive changes ahead. You may just want to know what's in store in the months to come or get some understanding, resolution with a situation from the past that's still bothering you. What ever it is, set a intention, like you would do when you send a letter, you trust it will get to its destination, but you need to know we're your sending it to before you post it. In doing so it helps all the energies to connect before having your actual reading.
During your reading the most important aspect is to remain open. Yes, you may feel a bit nervous but within a few minutes of speaking and connecting to the psychic you'll start feeling more comfortable. Try not to test the reader, withholding information, if their asking you for validation, a yes or no, this helps them to know their connecting with what's specific to you. Or, to the other extreme that your over sharing and talking more than thevreader is. The psychic should lead your reading. There should be a flow to your session that helps uplift you. It may bring your emotions up, but this is all part of the reading and I often find when I work there's healing energy that comes through, like it would if you have a alternative therapy treatment like reiki, crystal healing or reflexology. The spirit world draw close in psychic readings so you may experience, shivers, goose bumps, temperature changes.
If at any time your not feeling happy or comfortable stop the reading immediately, don't be embarrassed to do so. All spirit, psychic connection feels good - it may make you question things from a different perspective, it may intrigue you, but it should never make you feel doubtful, upset or fearful. It often links you in with things you feel to already be true in many respects. There should never be anything that makes your scared for the future and if it does, dismiss it as soon as you hear it.
It doesn't happen often, but If I can see after a short period of time the connection to my client isn't clear, being understood and they don't seem to be happy or benefiting from their session, I will draw the reading to a close. This doesn't mean there is anything wrong with the psychic or the clients energy, it could be there not the right fit to work together, or there are certain energies, information that doesn't want to come forward at the time the reading is given, but may well do so at a future point in time.
After having your reading, you should be feeling clearer, even if some of the things that you were told, that came through weren't exactly what you wanted to hear. You will have more clarity of your next step and will hopefully feel a loving connection to the spirit world, and be more open to receiving psychic guidance in the future, maybe even wanting to explore it more and see how it works, with your own psychic gifts.
Try not to keep focuing on each point given during your reading or life your life by it, rather keep a awareness about it, allow things to filler through, like, 'I remember now that was mentioned in my reading' or 'that's fallen in to place more now'. Readings are like a guide map, a dot to dot image, but your the one who joins it all together bringing the picture to life. Psychic readings I find are really empowering, a healing tool, helping you gain more understanding which expands your own awareness and perspective within your life .
Jannine x
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